Author: thepathtoworthy

As I shared yesterday, I think I’ve always believed that every relationship is fixable. I think there is always some ground to find whereas two people find their groove. What if this is not the case though? What if you’ve outgrown another person? What if the circumstances that brought you together no longer exist and… Continue reading Can. Not. Fix. Right?

Merriam-Webster defines irreconcilable differences as follows: an inability to agree on most things or on important things. I was having a discussion with a friend recently about older movies and the movie with that title came to mind. I pulled up the movie on Google to show my friend, who had never heard of it,… Continue reading An inability to agree.

Happy Friday. How are you? Ready to wrap this (for now?)... I did get out of that terrible relationship, but not because I was strong enough to break free. I got out because he left me. I got out because he found someone else and married her. I got out because I didn’t have a… Continue reading Now I’m here…

I want to spend some time talking about how I felt when I was in the thick of things. I think it’s important that I really dig deep and share the nitty gritty. I don’t want to hold back or make things nice. I want to be very honest about what I was thinking about… Continue reading This is what it looked like.

I want to tell you that this is going to be a quick and lighthearted look back. I want to tell you that you will admire me that I “made it through”. You won’t. I was pathetic. I abandoned friends and family. I abandoned myself. I was very lost and rather than taking the time… Continue reading Drowning.

I walked you through what one progression was like. Just one. That was one aspect of my life where I made myself small. That was one part of my life where I compromised myself into a place and a person that was unrecognizable. That was one teeny pebble on the Grand Canyon floor. I can… Continue reading I set myself up.

I binge watched The Maid recently. Have you seen it? No spoiler alert here at all. Truly. I’m not going to share even one detail that you wouldn’t see in the trailer. I will tell you that I think the show is pure fucking magic and Margaret Qualley and Andie McDowell (amongst other actors) deserve acclaim and… Continue reading The Progression.

I think we have absolutely and totally explored the concept of principled decision making. That is not to say that we don’t have anything left to say (or that I don’t), but rather, that we have enough information to apply to the situation I’m speaking of. What’s left? Well, I would like to touch on… Continue reading Sorry, but I just don’t want to.

I ended yesterday’s post in a spot that might have felt out of left field for some of you. I understand. I recognize that it was a strange toss in, but I really wanted to bring that concept into the discussion, and so, I did. The first part of the post, I described how we… Continue reading Make the time…

I talked yesterday about the idea of acting out of some principle. I was fairly negative about this idea when I brought it up, and I think it’s important to correct that notion, because I don’t believe the concept to be altogether disastrous. Not even a little. I think we have to hold fast to… Continue reading Crossing The Line.