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Happy Monday! Did I leave your brain spinning all weekend? I’m sorry. That wasn’t my intention. Like I said, this topic is a big one for me and so, I am rigorously and excitedly trying to get every last thought out on paper. The craziest part is that there is still so much left to… Continue reading Not everyone is going to like you.

Hiya. Did you think that I was suggesting that every single relationship needs to be analyzed before one makes a decision how to proceed? Absofuckinglutely. I know that is a difficult concept to process, and there was a time when I would have been scared to share that thought with you. I would have been… Continue reading Get in there….

Did I leave you on a confusing or hopeless note yesterday? That was not my intention. I just want to be real about what it can look like. What is the what here? Likability. The quest for such. The thirst we have for approval. It’s fucking brutal. I have, on many occasion (but mostly as… Continue reading Likability Ratings.

Where did I leave off? Oh right. Social media stalking. Amazing, right? So cute. No wonder I’m pondering my ability to be a social creature. I would ask who does that, but the better question is, who admits that? I do. I am. I think it’s important that we keep it real. I want to… Continue reading How do I gauge this?

I was so excited about this topic that I almost dove in right in the middle. That’s right. I almost started at a place where it would make next to no sense for the reader. That happens to me sometimes, but I think I’ve shared that with you. I get so excited about some thing… Continue reading Am I that unlikable?

When has fear sabotaged you from growth? I was reading recently and this question was posed as something to explore. My immediate response? All the time. Every time. Often. Frequently. Typically. I want to say never. I want to tell you that I have always been able to overcome my fears to grow as a… Continue reading The Saboteur.

I know, I know. Tomorrow was a pretty long stretch this go around. What can I say? I have a lot going on and I’m trying to practice self-care since I go on and on about it all the damn time. Anyway, speaking of self-care, I’d love to talk about standards. I basically talk about… Continue reading High Standards.

Hi. So, this sort of crazy but innately human thing happened to me. I want to share it, because I think it is incredibly relevant to what we chat about, regularly. Two different people that I was close with (am close with? was close with?) called me out about my blog. They both were extraordinarily… Continue reading Yo.

Happy end of this post rant. Are you happy we got here, finally? Me too. I’m going to keep this one pretty brief. What did I say I was going to do in the beginning of all of this? Oh right, a solution. LOL. A solution?! I don’t have a solution. The End. Just kidding,… Continue reading Gold, baby, gold.

Silence. Perhaps the most brutal of it all. I deeply struggle with silence. I’ve talked about this so many times that you might be rolling your eyes right about now. Yes, we get it. We know you can’t stand the silent treatment. We understand. Get over it. I can’t. Get over it. I just cannot.… Continue reading Hello? Are you there?