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I was always afraid of confrontation. Not the in-your-face-fuck-off portion of that whole deal. Nope. More the fear related to the outcome of such a thing. You know what I’m talking about, right? The proverbial ‘they’ always tell you to only ask the questions where you’re prepared to hear the answers (no matter what). Of… Continue reading What’s one conversation that’s transformed your life?

Well, hey there. How was the weekend? Mine was glorious. A few hiccups but nothing to do with my company or our activities. Just external forces. Friendships. Relationships. The world. Ya know, little baby shit. Anyway, I promised last week that I would discuss what happens if you get stung and I am a woman… Continue reading Post-Sting.

Okay. So, we have to attempt to avoid the water when it’s jelly fish season or when we are advised that they’ve come in for their own reasons mostly unbeknownst to us. We do the same with relationships. We try and not make major decisions to jump in or out when things are upside down… Continue reading Another time, another beach, another suit.

I was watching something the other night and the concept of l’appel du vide was introduced. I know that sounds horrifically generic. I mean, it’s not really appropriate to say ‘watching the other night’, but I was tired as fuck when it was on and I honestly can’t remember where I heard it. If you… Continue reading Into the void?

Hi. Sorry for the hiatus. I know that we still need to discuss how to do this. I mean, the movie was great and all, but we aren’t about to take our friends to court to divorce them, right? Sounds rather dramatic and honestly, likely easier than what actually has to be done. I don’t… Continue reading Fade to black…

What did I mean by more yesterday? Why isn’t someone’s best effort and intention just taken at face value? Well, because of the feelings underlying the effort and the authenticity of the intention. We don’t have to explore why someone might feel the way that they do, because we might never really understand (no matter… Continue reading It’s okay not to be okay.

I have a friend who recently told me that things feel hard when we interact. I didn’t necessarily disagree with her at all, but it didn’t feel like a casual observation of our relationship. It felt like an accusation. It felt like I was being told I am difficult. Fifty percent of that feeling came… Continue reading Always more.

As I shared yesterday, I think I’ve always believed that every relationship is fixable. I think there is always some ground to find whereas two people find their groove. What if this is not the case though? What if you’ve outgrown another person? What if the circumstances that brought you together no longer exist and… Continue reading Can. Not. Fix. Right?

Merriam-Webster defines irreconcilable differences as follows: an inability to agree on most things or on important things. I was having a discussion with a friend recently about older movies and the movie with that title came to mind. I pulled up the movie on Google to show my friend, who had never heard of it,… Continue reading An inability to agree.

Happy Friday. How are you? Ready to wrap this (for now?)... I did get out of that terrible relationship, but not because I was strong enough to break free. I got out because he left me. I got out because he found someone else and married her. I got out because I didn’t have a… Continue reading Now I’m here…