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I’ve heard too many friends tell me that they’ve given up on the idea of having what seems to them an ideal relationship. I use the caveat of personal preference because we are all so different and the crazy part is that it doesn’t really matter, because the shift away from that “goal” is universal.… Continue reading Should you make an investment or not?

Are you hungry for more? Sorry, I couldn’t resist. So, I started with a quote and then went down the rabbit hole of food talk. Seems appropriate as I love me some food, but also, I understand why we need to tie things up a little tighter. Milk at dinner is not my love language.… Continue reading Fear of Falling (or Not).

I have this distinct memory in the back of my head as I start this particular blog piece. I remember some dude telling me that he was under the weather and would ‘try me later.’ Then I remember him vanishing and then I remember him showing up a week later. He proffered no explanation or… Continue reading My absence was not purposeful…

Happy Friday all. Cool, cool. I’ve gone online and pulled up quotes that bothered me and torn the notions to shreds. But, what now? How do we know when to apologize? Is this something else that we have to analyze and overthink and second guess? Nope. Not even close. That’s the whole thing. I believe… Continue reading Sincere apologies, from the bottom of my cold, dead heart.

Are you ready for the last quote that bugged me to no end? Okay: “Apologizing doesn’t always mean that you are wrong and the other is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.” Sigh. Like the other quotes I’ve shared with you over the last few days, there is… Continue reading You are not wrong, but also, you are.

Ready to move onto the next skin crawling moment? Here is the next quote that got my panties in a twist: “The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest and the first to forget is the happiest.” Again, there are many examples where this thought is spot on. I… Continue reading Pardon?

When I was researching my posts for this week, I ran into so many quotes that enraged me. So many thoughts from others that exemplify this mostly broken system whereas we act like assholes and then apologize, where we pretend that we can handle stuff that we can’t, and where we act like apologizing again… Continue reading Oops.

We live in a society filled with offensive behavior and all the apologies. We ladle out the word sorry as if it bears some meaning beyond its actual meaning. At the heart of it all is unapologetic behavior that is mostly followed by apologies. We apologize because we think it’s what we should say. I… Continue reading Sorry. No, Really.

Happy Friday kids. Let’s keep on the truth telling business, shall we? I buy shit that I see advertised by influencers. I get influenced. I’m not ashamed of this. I’m grateful that someone else has done the work to find an obscure thing that makes me happy. They are a human representation of Google, without… Continue reading I like carbs.

Let's go back to my moment of strength that I described yesterday. My truth telling. Here is what I was really thinking: First of all, I’m sick to fucking death of proving myself to people who are supposed to be my friends. I will no longer explain that I am not judging. I will no… Continue reading More? More.